Single woman in New York City?! How could that be? Yeah that's what I said! Well guess what, with all the hustle, buzzle and competition it's hard to snag a guy specially when you are as picky as me. With a full time job and two kids I don't even have time or a baby sitter to go out, yes I'm a single mommy. So what the hell I gave plenty of fish a shot for the second time but this time around I actually devoted some time to it when the kids were sleeping of course. I just put like 3 pictures of my face, I'm no beauty queen but I'm not horrid either. I thought that if I wanted to find me something serious I'd have to save the booty pics for another occasion. But no ladies, no matter how innocent your pictures are these men still manage get a hard-on and ask for cuddling, dirty pictures in your lingerie and sex. I got bombarded with messages left and right and some guys even write to you more than 10 times when you don't reply to their messages. It was just overwhelming and exhausting to read so much of the same crap and no decent man in sight except for the not so attractive ones, they had no choice but to be nice. I do gotta say that PoF users are way better looking than the ones on OkCupid.com. There were some pretty good looking men who were actually sweet and respectful that's when I would allow them to move to the next phase; kik messenger.
To avoid giving my number and getting annoying calls through the day I would message them from a not so personal messaging platform to get to know them a bit better. This is where they would show their true colors and send me their half naked pictures. I mean what is wrong with men nowadays?! Do they really think they can attract a woman this way? I don't know about you but that is a complete turn off for me. But anyways after the pictures, came the "do you want to cuddle with me?" comments, and that's where It all ended with me! Block and delete! I mean I don't know you and you don't know me so what in the hell gives you the right to ask me such question! It was just aggravating, it seemed like they were all programmed the same way. They'll send a cute comment, compliment my beauty, ask for my number or messenger, send dirty pictures and ask for a cuddling session that of course would lead to sex. And of course some girls are dumb enough to fall for that and claim that it was all out of love. Out the 2,000 messages I got (actual number) I could say that I got to talk to like maybe 5 guys that I found interesting and we're actually respectful so don't lose hope in PoF but I'm just over it.
To avoid giving my number and getting annoying calls through the day I would message them from a not so personal messaging platform to get to know them a bit better. This is where they would show their true colors and send me their half naked pictures. I mean what is wrong with men nowadays?! Do they really think they can attract a woman this way? I don't know about you but that is a complete turn off for me. But anyways after the pictures, came the "do you want to cuddle with me?" comments, and that's where It all ended with me! Block and delete! I mean I don't know you and you don't know me so what in the hell gives you the right to ask me such question! It was just aggravating, it seemed like they were all programmed the same way. They'll send a cute comment, compliment my beauty, ask for my number or messenger, send dirty pictures and ask for a cuddling session that of course would lead to sex. And of course some girls are dumb enough to fall for that and claim that it was all out of love. Out the 2,000 messages I got (actual number) I could say that I got to talk to like maybe 5 guys that I found interesting and we're actually respectful so don't lose hope in PoF but I'm just over it.